earlier today i saw someone claiming it was like ableist to ask people to try and be kind and apologize bc some people are low empathy and my head like split in half

like i dont experience affective empathy and my brain is sometimes cognitively incapable of remorse in some situations and yet somehow that doesnt stop me from being a decent human being bc actually that has almost nothing to do with it. like you can be all those things and still kind and having morality and uh basic conflict resolution skills